Nepal is a lot more shanti than India. The people are more relaxed and friendly. Even the worst of the tourist areas, Thamel in Kathmandu, is a breeze after, say, pretty much any equivalent area in any Indian city. But it takes some adjustment to go from India to Nepal. In India, everything and everyone is larger than life. In Nepal things are much cooler, but less likely to happen unless you make them.Here's a random quote from a blog that sums up my feelings on arriving in Kathmandu pretty well:As we dumped our bags in our hotel room in Pokhara a member of staff asked if we wanted some 'welcome tea'. We looked at him suspiciously and asked how much and he laughed saying we must have come from India. He came back with the two teas saying 'Relax, your in Nepal now' and we have done just that.
When I first arrived I was still used to the Indian way of bargaining for things – aggressive, full of little tricks and plays (the walk-away is an old favourite), and kinda fun. In Nepal they will start with a price to high, then you give your price, then they will just smile, say no and wait. What for? They’re meant to come down in price, I come up, and we meet in the middle. Instead your price just goes up and up. In Nepal they charm you into paying too much.
Whether from lots of Western influence through NGO’s and tourism, or just the national character, people seem to be on the same page. In India, it can sometimes be like starting on different pages on different books on opposite ends of the library. Nepali's won’t start a conversation and ask how much you earn or enquire about your relationship status. The ubiquitous hawker’s call of “hello, hello” is replaced by “excuse me…”. Out of the cities everyone greets everyone with prayered hands and a namaste - you feel silly at first but then it's really nice, and people appreciate it.
While the cities, to be honest, are not that great after India, the countryside is wonderful. Beautiful, different everywhere you go (because of the steep terrain, you can walk through different climates in a few hours, and feel like you’re walking through different countries. People adapt to the different climates in different ways in a the same valley), often great views of the Himalayas (pronounced Himaalya, darlink). Plenty of cheap places to stop and stay while you wander around, and at least where I went, nowhere that’s too hard to go for the average person. Plus there are buses running everywhere.
Physically, Nepal is kind of like Tasmania, although more beautiful (although Tassie's temperate rainforest has it beat), except when it's being more beautiful than the south of France (and nearly always with the Himalayas soaring overhead). Nepali's have a lot of problems, but what with living in one of the most beautiful countries in the world, pound for pound they are probably one of the happiest people in the world. Even the animals look happy. And why not? They are living in Nepal.
(Actually, the above thought was scribbled down while watching lots of happy looking goats being driven around on motorcycles on the way up to Sarangkot. The next day turned out to be Dashain, the big goat-slaughtering festival. But goats look happy anywhere, I've discovered)
People are going to be angry at me for not going "trekking" - but I didn't want to have to buy all the gear, and then sell it when I was done. It's more fun with someone else, and when I was here the monsoon was still going on so you couldn't see much most of the time. Anyway, I did my equivalent - Alex trekking.
There’s a huge phwoar factor here too. Nepali women are immensely attractive. A lot of them dress in really eye-catching western clothes. Men dress in snappy western trousers and shirts, often with a topi and waistcoat. The older women and some younger dress in traditional Nepali clothes.
After roughing it in India, the tourists in Nepal seemed despicable to me at first. All clad in expensive gore-tex and hiking gear, humping their day-packs around the cities like they're on an expedition, flown straight in from America or France or Germany. And all so good looking and clean! Tourists in India are never clean.
Food is not that great – mostly Dal Baat, basically rice with vegetable curry, lentils and a papad. Every night. The tourist restaurants though, especially after India, are pretty amazing. And every hotel you go to in India seems to have a Nepali cook or two.
It seems everywhere you look in the countryside there’s an NGO project going on – millions of dollars get poured into Nepal every year - almost half the budget comes from foreign aid (and they need it – 45% of the country lives in poverty, there are terrible rates of education and health), and there are no taxes to speak of. Eventually some of the foreign aid sometimes gets to where it’s needed. Indologists, Tibetologists and even a few Nepalologists are thick on the ground researching Nepal’s customs, religions, languages and refugees.
Ethnically and culturally the people are a mix of Tibetans, Chinese and Indians (moving in stages from the Indian border in the south to the Tibetan border to the north). Religion is a mix of Hinduism and Buddhism. Caste is even more crazy (or less devolved than India has become - Nepal was only recently opened up to the west). Generally, a barber's daughter is going to get married to a barber's son.
Since the 60s there's been a slow cultural revolution going on - numerous 'dance bars', western shops and ideas have been introduced. Since the Communist rebels came to power (just before I arrived), a new sort of cultural revolution has been swinging things the other way - dance bars are still open but there are curfews and stricter policing. There are power cuts every day, even in Kathmandu.
The best thing regarding the Communists is to not mention the war. Nearly everyone asks you what you think of them, and the general consensus seems to be wait and see what they do (they might not be so corrupt as previous governments). I put my foot in it when I mentioned was in favour of them with one guy, who then told me how he had watched the Communists kill his mother as she got in the way of a gunfight (they were confiscating land held privately by a rich Nepali). Then another guy, who I was more reserved with, turned out to be the leader of the Youth Communists in his school. Things will be a lot less corrupt, he said, now that he had stacked the votes there. Animal Farm.
In general, the people are so trapped by the caste system (which has it's positives and negatives always) and a succession of corrupt governments that the catch-all phrase to any dissatisfying situation is a shrug and "what to do?" See, this post was actually a three-way pun!
Here's a pic of the new and old currency, with the King replaced by Mt. Everest.
